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Archive for June 2009

Better is good

Posted by: maloneokie on: June 29, 2009

Things with hubby and I are slowly improving.  Now the real test will be this week if the step kids decide to come.  A part of me would like to go another week without them but I can’t control that. 
I am working my “Love Dare” book.  I can only fix me and I am well [...]

I am back

Posted by: maloneokie on: June 26, 2009

Sorry, I had to climb out of my cave. 
After the BIG meltdown a few days ago I was really at a cross roads in my marriage.  I have been fighting everyone for almost 6 years and I have grown tired.   I have been in the defense mode for so long it has become natural.  I [...]

How do you think I am going to react??

Posted by: maloneokie on: June 24, 2009

When you call me to tell me you “smoothed” things over with SD2?  WTF? 
She felt I “yelled” at her but could not remember when and one time when she got her feelings hurt and felt my apology was not sincere.  She is freakin’ 13 years old.  She does not run the show. 
She has been told [...]

Mama drama day 2

Posted by: maloneokie on: June 16, 2009

Like you thought it would end after only 1 day! HA!
So seems that PEW “remembered” her child support checks arrives on Tuesday.  How magical is that? So she will buy them each 1 pair of shorts so they will have just enough for the trip.  She still seems to think that I somehow am her [...]

Weekend reviews

Posted by: maloneokie on: June 15, 2009

We went to the drive in movie and watched “Up”.  It was good. 
Watched “Last Holiday” on Netflix – it was good.  Not great but good.
I made a chocolate peanut butter pie – from Pioneer Woman’s blog- and it was wonderful. 
** I get the feeling I am not liking mu web sites correctly and if you [...]

Told you so

Posted by: maloneokie on: June 15, 2009

Well this is Monday and we leave for Oklahoma on Thursday early morning. Hubby is supposed to pick up the kids on Wednesday night ready to leave.  Well well well…hubby called PEW (psycho ex wife) and she said the kids still don’t have any clothes or luggage and we would have to buy everything.  Whoa [...]

Friday post

Posted by: maloneokie on: June 12, 2009

Yes it is finally Friday.  This week has gone much better compared to last week. 
Next week we head to Oklahoma.  I am waiting on some major drama to occur.  I will work on getting the house ready for the house sitter and getting myself packed.  Whatever happens, I am heading out the door Thursday morning [...]

Figured it out

Posted by: maloneokie on: June 8, 2009

One of the reasons birthdays are so hard for me is it makes me realize how much I miss my parents and how much I miss my family and friends in Oklahoma.  I am an island here in MCUSA.  I just felt like “my” day was an after thought (and that is not hubby’s fault [...]

Singin the blues

Posted by: maloneokie on: June 8, 2009

Yea my birthday sucked.  Sorry there it is.  I am still (Monday) down in the dumps about it. 
Friday I picked up the SK because hubby got caught at work with a flood.  They had nothing with them.  No clothes.  Found out that SD#2 wasn’t even wearing underwear!!  Both kids apologized for causing problems.  What do [...]

Insert cheerful music here

Posted by: maloneokie on: June 3, 2009

Well Hurrican psycho ex (PE) has passed.  Hubby and I are fine – there are a few emotional trees bent but not broken.  Looks like PE magically found the money that she needed once that we stood firm.  You can’t get blood from a turnip as the saying goes. 
Today is a new day and we will [...]